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Nalaya Chakana is an intimacy coach who helps people experience real love and connection. She and I met in Peru some years ago. I had to ask her about conscious celibacy because… well you’ll see.

Her Dare to Love course starts in September 2020. It’s for both men and women who want to find real intimacy.

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Sexual Shame, NoFap pros & cons, Arousal Control into Self Expression

Powered by RedCircle2:07 Sexual Shame in boyhood6:11 Chemical drivers/rewards in sex8:12 Mental atrophy from porn habits11:40 Destruction of young males by pharmasociety13:01 Predator vs. prey chemicals14:02 Pros and cons of NoFap14:44 Problems with the 12 Step...

Dominance Hierarchies

Powered by RedCircleOur Emotional-Territorial brain evolved to1) connect as social groups,2) determine place in the 'dominance hierarchy'. Much of our self-esteem, locus of control, and ability to socialize comes down to the imprinting of the primitive nervous system....

Dr. Charles Ryan: The Virility Paradox, the Influence of Testosterone on Bodies and Minds

Powered by RedCircleDr. Charles Ryan is an oncologist and the author of one of my favorite books of the year, The Virility Paradox. We ground from abstract principles around “masculinity” in science, and derive some actionable items from understanding Testosterone and...

Ken Blackman: Penetrating Powerful Women and Stuff

Powered by RedCircleKen Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples. I met him when he was the Head Instructor and “Master Stroker” at OneTaste and I was starting my journey into trippy stuff. His recent work on relationships soon...

Melanie Curtain: Dear Men, Sex Research

Powered by RedCircleMelanie Curtain is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships. She shares some of her interesting data points on male-female sexuality, tips for increased intimacy, and the importance...

Jacqueline Buckingham: Huge Pussy Life

Powered by RedCircleJacqueline Buckingham is an actress and entrepreneur, among other things. She’s the creator and star of The Box with Jacqueline on Amazon Prime (season 2 coming soon). She was also in Half Baked. She’s also driving an important movement involving...

Rachael Maddox: Sex After Trauma

Powered by RedCircleRachael Maddox is a Trauma Resolution Educator and Author of Secret Bad Girl and the upcoming Sex After Trauma. We speak about overcoming trauma, trauma theories, and gender stuff. Support her kickstarter: bit.ly/sexaftertraumabookRachaelmaddox.com...

A General Theory of Love, book discussion

Powered by RedCircleTim Jack and I discuss the limbic system, how your personality and thoughts regulate to other people, parental upbringing on your psychological profile, and tribal thinking. TRIGGER WARNING: We talk about politics. Check out other episodes