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Most people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren’t actually being vulnerable when they think they are. 

If you’re watching this, I assume you already understand the benefits of vulnerability. This video will help you become aware of actual vulnerability. It might not be what you think, but it is within your control.

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