Masculinity and Failure: How Men Should Use Hardship

Most people misunderstand masculine vulnerability. Men need to be vulnerable, but not in the same way as women. The main difference has to with challenges, winning, and failure.

Understanding this is the key for men to grow and become better men. This video shares tips for men, obviously. But if you’re a woman who dates men, please watch this video to understand your man’s emotions, especially when he is struggling.

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