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2:07 Sexual Shame in boyhood
6:11 Chemical drivers/rewards in sex
8:12 Mental atrophy from porn habits
11:40 Destruction of young males by pharmasociety
13:01 Predator vs. prey chemicals
14:02 Pros and cons of NoFap
14:44 Problems with the 12 Step approach 
17:06 Mantak Chia: Is it okay to come?
18:16 Arousal as a currency
23:37 Dealing with the anger and grief the comes up
27:33 Compulsion and self-loathing

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