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I saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory. We ran into each more recently doing Jiu-Jitsu. We riffed on masculinity, purpose, martial arts, relationships, fatherhood and other man stuff.

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Michael Ellsberg: Creative Madness, Manic Depression

Powered by RedCircleMichael Ellsberg is the bestselling author of The Education of Millionaires. We had this conversation after he wrote a piece about his bipolar 2 after a manic phase publicized about this writing. Michael shares a very raw and honest perspective on...

Dr. Charles Ryan: The Virility Paradox, the Influence of Testosterone on Bodies and Minds

Powered by RedCircleDr. Charles Ryan is an oncologist and the author of one of my favorite books of the year, The Virility Paradox. We ground from abstract principles around “masculinity” in science, and derive some actionable items from understanding Testosterone and...

Follow Your Passion and the Money Will Follow Is Not the Full Story

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On Dating Multiple Women, Open Relationships, and Growth as a Dude

Powered by RedCircleOne the most common dating goals I hear from guys is "I want to date multiple women who are all okay with it". Even if it's partially ego-driven, it's actually a great goal as it forces you to grow as man. Here's what you need to know. Check out...

Reality Dominance

Powered by RedCircleRuwan discusses Reality perception in this live discussion. Check out other episodes

Pain and the Hero’s Journey feat. Tim Jack

Powered by RedCircleTim Jack and I dig into our personal lives dating lives. He also gets me to share some scary things about my childhood. Check out other episodes

Emily Linden: The Unslut Project

Powered by RedCircleEmily Linden is the founder of The Unslut Project, a book, film, and movement to remove slut shaming. Check out other episodes

My First Year in a Matriarchal Sex Cult

Powered by RedCircleI was in a matriarchal sex cult for two years in my early 20's. The journey turned out to be one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, teaching me a foundational knowledge of the psyche that I couldn't have gotten in any normal school....