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I saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory. We ran into each more recently doing Jiu-Jitsu. We riffed on masculinity, purpose, martial arts, relationships, fatherhood and other man stuff.

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Leslie Selene: Witchcraft and Initiation

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Hacking Abundance: How Giving Actually Creates More

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Colin Van Ert: My Friend the Grasshopper

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Melanie Curtain: Dear Men, Sex Research

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Matt Bowden: Adventures with Drugs and Manifestation

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