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Are you more ANXIOUS or AVOIDANT? How do you see Attachment Theory show up in how you relate? Attachment Theory is probably the most useful model for understanding out relationship tendencies. This convo is with Joseph Teskey, a psychotherapist from Brooklyn. We ended up speaking a lot on the application for men in dating… A lot of dating advice is geared towards teaching Anxious men to become Avoidant. (you’ll understand what those terms mean in the first few minutes.) We cover what’s right and wrong about that, how men can become more secure, and how this all ties into the Hero’s Journey. Joseph also psychoanalyzes my bad behavior. 🙂

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A General Theory of Love, book discussion

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Antidotes to Nice Guy Syndrome

Powered by RedCircleNice Guy Syndrome is a set of maligned characteristics that have been conditioned into most men to some degree. It usually shows up in dating, relationships, and work. For a man to be personally fulfilled, but also useful to others he needs to get...

Saint Woo: Are Spirits a Thing?

Powered by RedCircleSaint Woo is a self-described secular witch and occult researcher. She claims to have regular interactions with non-human entities that only she can see. I brought her on to better understand her reality because she speaks fairly specifically about...

Ken Blackman: Penetrating Powerful Women and Stuff

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Alexander Heyne: Modern Health Monk

Powered by RedCircleAlexander Heyne is the founder of ModernHealthMonk.com and MilkThePigeon.com. He is also a student of Chinese medicine, currently getting his doctorate. At the time of this interview he was just about to transition to med student life after years...

Senergetic BDSM feat. Lord Vesper

Powered by RedCircleI met Cazembe Abena (@lordvesper) at his workshop in Phoenix, AZ. We speak on the transformational aspects of BDSM; archetypal psychology, West African mysticism, and being a man. Check out other episodes

Infinite Play: Coming of Age in the Matriarchal Cult of Orgasm

Powered by RedCircleThis is the opening chapter to my memoir on my time in the sex cult. To keep up to date with the book and to learn more, make sure you're on my email list. Join at Ruwando.com Check out other episodes

Mantak Chia: MultiOrgasmic Man, Universal Healing Tao

Powered by RedCircleMantak Chia is the grandmaster of the Taoist lineage of energy cultivation. He is the author of over 50 books including The MultiOrgasmic Man. In this episode, we speak about the Tao, spirit, energy cultivation. For the video version of this...