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Anders Wallace is a sociologist studying the subculture of men looking to development themselves through relating to women. He did a multi-year study of the “PUA” communities and others. I was one of his case studies during his research. In this episode, Anders and I discuss his findings in masculinity, male self-esteem, and the vices and virtues within the pursuit of becoming “attractive.”

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