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Bez is sexuality educator who had a brilliant TED talk on female orgasm. She also recently shared a series of posts about intimacy regarding moving in with her boyfriend. I know this because I just moved in with my girlfriend and she keeps sending me Bez’s posts. Bez and I speak about what gets triggered in the psyche when you get close to a loved one and how to navigate intimacy.

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Steve Mayeda

Powered by RedCircleI saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory. We ran into each more recently doing Jiu-Jitsu. We riffed on masculinity, purpose, martial arts,...

Joseph Teskey: Attachment Theory

Powered by RedCircleAre you more ANXIOUS or AVOIDANT? How do you see Attachment Theory show up in how you relate? Attachment Theory is probably the most useful model for understanding out relationship tendencies. This convo is with Joseph Teskey, a psychotherapist...

Chantel Quick: Backwards Feminism

Powered by RedCircleChantel Quick is a writer and coach and the founder of EarthBasedMom. She's also my girlfriend. We had this impromptu conversation on feminism after she observed on Facebook how some branches of Feminism are anti-feminine. Check out other...

Carolyn Elliott: Existential Kink

Powered by RedCircleCarolyn Elliott is the author of Existential Kink, a method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't. She and I met in OneTaste many moons ago. We talk about 'practical magick' (tinkering with the unconscious for positive effect),...

Puer Aeternus: Evolving Beyond The Infinite Child

Powered by RedCircleI discussed the recent Puer Aeternus video on YouTube. It seemed to have touched a lot of guys who still see themselves as 'boys' in their mind. Check out other episodes

Dr. Charles Ryan: The Virility Paradox, the Influence of Testosterone on Bodies and Minds

Powered by RedCircleDr. Charles Ryan is an oncologist and the author of one of my favorite books of the year, The Virility Paradox. We ground from abstract principles around “masculinity” in science, and derive some actionable items from understanding Testosterone and...

The Vulnerability Trap: How to Recognize Real Openness

Powered by RedCircleMost people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren't actually being vulnerable when they think they are.  If you're watching this, I assume you already understand the...

Victoria Redbard: New Paradigm Intimacy

Powered by RedCircleVictoria Redbard is a somatic sexologist and founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy. We speak about polarity in society, sex magic, and integrating eros into life. Also, buttplugs for business. (Listen to find out what that means.)...