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Hi, I’m Ruwan.

I write, coach and host a podcast.

Life is an infinite game.

The most fulfilling way to play is to engage with the unconscious, to shine light on the dark.

That’s what I like to do.

I interview top experts in the fields of psychology, masculinity, intimacy, and relationships. I also research complex topics and break them down on my podcast. I also offer courses and coaching.  

​Most people reach out to me for help with intimacy or purpose. 

But what I really care about is helping people individuate. (That’s a fancy word for having your unconscious gifts express through you so you can be, have, and do what you want in this permutation of reality.)

You can create a life of abundance, connection, and adventure starting now.  

Hi, I’m Ruwan.

I write, coach and host a podcast.

Life is an infinite game.

The most fulfilling way to play is to engage with the unconscious, to shine light on the dark.

That’s what I like to do.

I interview top experts in the fields of psychology, masculinity, intimacy, and relationships. I also research complex topics and break them down on my podcast. I also offer courses and coaching.  

​Most people reach out to me for help with intimacy or purpose. 

But what I really care about is helping people individuate. (That’s a fancy word for having your unconscious gifts express through you so you can be, have, and do what you want in this permutation of reality.)

You can create a life of abundance, connection, and adventure starting now.  

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Testimonials

Ruwan has great presence and really listens to you as a coach.
He has helped me take massive action towards my goals, take me out of my comfort zone, and provide the necessary support. I went from an intangible business idea to having a website, blog, and clients in a matter of weeks.”

David Wang

New York

“Ruwan is gentle yet deep. His coaching inspires ‘A truly better tomorrow’ in you and makes you wanna create it in a flow state. His coaching helped me see details I wasn’t paying attention to but brought in deep shifts in my thinking. He is pragmatic and helps you stay on track. But the best part is, with Ruwan, you will want to enjoy the process.”

Anoop G

India

“I’ve always lived a life of a follower and not someone who typically takes action to create the life that I want.
Ruwan has guided me to take steps to accomplishing my life goals, create the life that I want and let go of the mental baggage that I’ve been carrying around. I was always tired or living in a constant state of low energy. Ruwan’s insight showed me ways to live an abundant and energetic life, and how my energy can impact others in a positive way.”

Nick

Savannah, GA